Monday, November 29, 2010

~ Friends?

Friendships can start out perfect. You expect that your gonna be friends for the rest of your lives. But then, you get slapped in the face back to reality, and realize that the person you thought was your best friend, actually just hangs out with you now because they now feel an "obligation" to still talk to you. Occasions may go by when they say to your face something that is inappropriate, like when they might say "I want to hang out with my old friends, not you.". But then, after this is said they treat it as a joke because they realized their mistake. And you may ignore it as well. But deep down, in the back of your head your still thinking, "What a ....." But you move on like of nothing happened. You may tell your friend everything, even your deepest secrets, but then they may not even want to tell you something as simple and idiotic as, lets say, someone they like because they think you might tell someone. If they don't trust you with something as simple as that, why should you tell them with something as big as a secret. I'm just writing this to point out, that you may treat your friends how you want to be treated. But if they treat you differently than how you treat them, like when they say things similar to what was stated above, then they don't deserve your friendship. If they want to be your friend then they should show it. If they don't show it, then they obviously don't want it. Why bother wasting precious time on someone that is not worth a second.

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6 comments:

  1. @Vale:yup...do you have anything to elaborate on my post, if you do, inbox me on f.b. :D

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  2. Dear Kellen;
    I totally agree with you. Friends should support your decisions no matter what, just like I do with any of my friends~ Istupport their decisions, but as you may know there are always some friends who you think they are your friends but they are just a real pain in your rectum. It's not easy saying bye to a friend you do want to have someone around even if they don't treat you like you would treat them. But I guess we fear to be lonely, after all one of the reasons school was made was for kids to socialize. And as well, not always are you going to like every friend, since people do change.... One minute they're this the next another totally different person that you never imagined. It's funny how we (or at least I) let all the crappyness of the friend continue and sometimes you feel like shutting them up and rubbing everything in their face like "hey I am not perfect you know". Or other times how they want to control you. I agree with you if they don't treat you the way you deserve, then say "Nice Meeting you, now Good Bye".
    Ohh and Amazing post you definetly have your creative side of your brain working<3
    Love you a lot, Geossette:D
    *Keep them post coming;D

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  3. @Geossette: Don't worry if someone makes you feel bad. I've also been told stuff that make me think "Hey I am not perfect you know". But then i just think that they aren't perfect either. Sometimes someone will only tell you something to bring you down or just plain bother you, but you just gotta remember that just because they make you feel imperfect, doesn't make then any more perfect that what they already aren't. Just ignore them, or just stop being their friend. I know it may sound harsh, but there are somethings that just have to be done. Whenever you need someone to talk to, remember I'll be here. <3

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  4. True... I'll always be your friend dont worry lol jk <3 but yeah you are one of my best friends I have 1,2,3,4 yeah 4 in total counting you. And no i wont slap you in the face lol love your blog :)keep on with your posts they turn out to all be true

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  5. LMAO according to my horoscope ("Your marriage project will be thwarted by events, most of them being beyond your control") Im getting married LOL :)

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